Health Homework (30.2) Music for your Fuckit List

If you have other or better songs to add to the list; please add them in the comments below—the idea isn’t to focus on relationships as much as on the theme of leaving behind old habits, ideas, etc...

"A revolution without dancing is a revolution not worth having." V for Vendetta

Here below are a few more songs to accompany yesterday’s Health Homework (30.1) Complement your Bucket List with a Fuckit List. These are in no particular order and might not even be “good” songs except that they are consistent with the theme of separating from situations that are no longer mutually beneficial. Most of these are in the rock-and-roll genre, and all of them are in English; as expected, most of them deal with romantic relationships but can also be applied to other separations from work, addiction, mental slavery, religion, etc.

“We grow from our commitments but we also suffer from them. … The goal of a FUCKIT LIST is to realize that maybe we’re dragging around an improperly-chosen emotional tombstone that we need to shrug off. … Maybe we don’t have to have a BUCKET LIST that includes driving a Ferrari or climbing Mount Everest in order to feel complete but rather realize—in our FUCKIT LIST—that our sense of incompleteness originated from a false sense of failure or shame from a wrongly-chosen goal or ideal that was never or is no longer correct for us.” DrV

If you have other or better songs to add to the list; please add them in the comments below—the idea isn’t to focus on interpersonal relationships as much as on the theme of leaving behind old habits, ideas, interactions, etc.

Somebody that I used to know—Gotye 2011

Accurate and tragic description of a relationship with a psychopath/narcissist/borderline disordered person.

“So when we found that we could not make sense, Well you said that we would still be friends, But I'll admit that I was glad that it was over.

Leave this city—The Sundays 1997

Feel this city inside you, feel this city define you, … leave this city behind you

Time for me to fly—REO Speedwagon 1978

I’ve got to set myself free

Fly By Night—Rush 1975

This feeling inside me says it's time I was gone. Clear head, new life ahead

It's time I was king now, not just one more pawn

Fly by night, away from here—Change my life again

Fly by night, goodbye, my dear—My ship isn't coming and I just can't pretend

Illumination—Rollins Band 2000

Illumination comes so hard; Makes me see but leaves its scars

At times I wish that I didn't know what I know now

I’ve mentioned Henry Rollins a few times in other articles.

Reptile—The Church 1988

Go now, you've been set free; Another month or so, you'll be poisoning me With your lovely smile

I see you slither away with your skin and your tail, Your flickering tongue and your rattling scales, Like a real reptile

Movin on—Elliott Yamin 2007

Easy—Commodores 1977